We are all waiting to meet our one true love, or putting it into one word, our soulmate.
If you are in love and wondering if you have found the right one, or single but interested in someone; then you might want to check for the following signs in your partner, this might help you to think clearly about them.
1. They are your person
When you are together, it feels like the world is a better place; you feel happy, relaxed and stress free with them. No matter what all happened throughout the day, a single hug from them can set things right. They are your happy place.
2. Ego takes a back seat
Ego can kill even the oldest of relationships, but soulmates keep their ego aside for each, know how to accept their mistakes, are not afraid of saying sorry, they value their relationship more than anything else.
3. You make compromises
A healthy relationship takes a lot of compromises, but you make them because you want to and not because you need to or feel pressured to do so. Two people in love would want to give everything they can to make their beloved happy, it’s a give and take relationship, well-balanced.
4. There’s mutual respect
You respect each other, all your views are truly valued, even when there is a difference of opinion, you don’t hold it against each other. You never insult them in public or in private.
5. The fights stay clean
Every couple, even soulmates can have arguments but your love and respect for each other doesn’t disappear during a fight. There is no screaming, cursing or hitting your partner; you love them way too much to resort to such means.
6. There is little to no jealousy
It is has been observed, happy couples rarely go through crazy episodes of jealousy. You know you’ve found your soulmate when you feel secure in the relationship, the bond of trust is so strong that jealousy feels like a wasted emotion.
7. You give each other space
You two are completely in sync, without losing your individuality, you spend time apart and it does not threaten you that you are growing apart, you are certain of where you stand with them. You give each other space to breathe.
8. You are not scared of discussing things with them
You feel comfortable in having serious discussions with them, you are not afraid of talking out your concerns with each other, you know that it will be productive and not result in an argument. You have an understanding.
9. You’re heading in the same direction
Your approach may be different, but your goals are the same. You share a similar life goal, your ‘big picture’ is all sorted out, you both know what you want out of life and it’s not going to drive you two apart.
10. You respect each other’s weaknesses
We all have certain flaws, modifiable or not, but a person who is meant to be your soulmate, will know these shortcomings and accept you with them. You both are like puzzle pieces, filling in for the shortcomings of the other. It’s a person who’s demons play well with yours.
11. Their pain is yours
Nothing can connect two people more than pain. You know you have met your soulmate when you can feel each other’s pain, sympathise with them without thinking that the person is overreacting or is being too emotional, you share their emotions and support them in their sorrows as much as you enjoy their joys.
12. You know what they’re thinking
You have reached a point in the relationship, that you can tell what they are thinking or how they are feeling about a certain situation just by looking at their expressions, you can even correctly anticipate their reaction to situations.
13. You share comfortable silences
This one is really important, when you are in each other’s company, it is not always necessary to have a conversation to make you feel like you two are connected, you can just silently lie with them and it’ll still be a special connection that you have, there are no awkward silences. You feel peaceful with them.
14. You two have been around before
Call it a kinky coincidence, but sometimes soulmates have been in the same place at the same time, without being aware of it, you might even see them each day but it all goes unnoticed, till you guys actually meet. Its only after you know them, you find out how close you two have been.
15. Your gut feeling says so
We have all been blessed with this sixth sense, which we don’t appreciate enough, but it has the ability to warn us of any possible danger before it even happens, similarly it can give you a ‘this is it’ feeling, you just know it in your heart that it’s going to be a good thing.
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