What I’m about to say might be hard to believe for many but a nerdy guy can be the ideal partner for a relationship.
I’m sure we’ve all been through the torture of running after those Zac Efron lookalikes, who are well aware of how they can push our buttons to the limit and break our hearts into pieces.
So after getting my heart broken for the third or fourth time in life, I finally decided that the time had come to listen to my sister’s advice and start looking for a ‘nice boy’. This was the time when I realized what a hidden gem a nerdy guy can be, the guy who most people would just refer to as ‘the Geek’.
I know the nerdy guy might never have been the first choice for you but here are 7 reasons why you should start thinking differently:
1. He will be Passionate
A nerd can be one of the most passionate people in the world. He will be completely in love with all the things that classify him as a nerd, so you can find solace in knowing that he is going to be extremely passionate about you as well. He will treat you like the queen that you are- especially if he’s a fan of Game of Thrones!
2. He will love to Learn
His passion for you will act as his driving force to learn more and more things about you. A nerdy guy revels in turning into an expert on the things he truly loves. And if you’re the one he truly loves, he will keep making efforts to know every single thing about you.
He will make an effort to start being interested in anything you’re interested in, and to learn more about you only to make sure you feel important and loved.
3. He Can Make You Smarter
His efforts to keep learning in life will also end up making you smarter. Nerds are usually so full of knowledge and insight that they would like nothing better than to share all of it with their loved ones, if they agree to listen. A nerdy guy can open your mind up to a complete new set of information- things that your Zac Efron lookalike would never even have a clue about.
And there will never be a dull moment in your relationship because his mind will always come up with something interesting to tell you.
4. Looks aren’t everything to him
You can always be yourself when you’re around a nerdy guy, without a worry or doubt in your mind. Hoping that his girlfriend is always up to date with the latest fashion trends or the best makeup tips will be the last thing on his priority list for you.
He will never care if your hair’s a little messy or if you just want to spend the entire day in your pajamas. He will constantly love and appreciate you- when you’re at your best AND when you’re at your worst.
5. He will take you on the best dates
He will take you on the most unexpected and exciting dates. He knows things about the city that aren’t exactly common knowledge. And he will show you places that you didn’t even know existed. He knows how to have fun and how to make you smile in alternative ways to the typical dates, and this will make everything more enjoyable for you.
6. His company will never be an Issue for you
You will never have any reason to start worrying about the kind of people he hangs out with. He won’t treat you like a guarded secret just to keep his options open. Nerdy guys haven’t usually dated a lot of people, so he will be excited to show you off and get you acquainted with his family and friends.
Other girls won’t even be able to get a single look into your nerd the way they did with the Zac Efron lookalike, which is why his attention will always be completely focused on you.
7. He is already on the road to success
A nerd is usually so hardworking and dedicated that he is bound to reach success later in his life. Between his tech-savviness, his intelligence and his devotion, your guy just might be on the road to becoming one of the most successful entrepreneurs of the market.
So step out of your comfort zone. Start listening to your mother’s advice. And finally give a chance to the nice guy you keep ignoring. A nerdy guy can definitely prove to be a diamond among all the rough of boyfriends. I guarantee you won’t ever regret it!
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