It’s a special kind of human experience whenever you get the chance to fall in love with someone who loves you. There’s nothing quite like holding hands with the one you’re madly head over heels with. You can’t think of too many things that are better than being out on dinner sitting across the man who occupies your everyday thoughts. Relationships can either be the most beautiful or the most terrifying social institutions ever.
Sometimes, they can be both beautiful and terrifying. But there’s no denying that there is nothing more important in this world than to give and receive love. Love is what binds us all together as a civilization and is what motivates us to get out of bed every morning. When find yourself in a loving relationship, then congratulations! You’re one of the lucky ones. We understand that it’s not always going to be easy and that things can get difficult, but don’t despair.
Every couple can go through rough patches. What matters is that you focus on the good things, and you continue to fight to save your relationships despite the difficulties. Your boyfriend can be a pain in the butt a lot of times, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Here are a few things that make your boyfriend a keeper.
1. He offers to help you
He knows that you’re only human and that you need help once in a while. He recognizes that you’re a strong and independent woman who can take care of herself, but he also knows whenever he’s needed. He’s always willing to be a strong-arm for you to rely on when you call.
2. He asks for your help
He’s not proud enough to ask for your help. He’s willing to let himself be vulnerable enough to acknowledge that he can’t take on all of his problems by himself and he turns to you for some relief because he trusts you.
3. He’s forward-thinking
He sees a future with you and he’s excited about it. He likes to plan his future around your relationship because he can’t ever imagine living a life without you. He takes you into consideration when making decisions about his long-term plans.
4. He puts an effort in planning his dates
It’s not just always going to be dinner and a movie with him. You can expect him to be adventurous and spontaneous whenever he’s with you. He’s always looking forward to making new memories with you at his said. He’s willing to try new things as long as he’s with you.
5. He takes an interest in the things you’re interested in
Whenever you mention a new band or a movie that you’re super into, he’ll try to check them out just because you’re interested in them. He’ll read a book you recommend even though he doesn’t necessarily like to read just because it was you who mentioned it to him.
6. He’s opening himself up to you
He allows himself to be vulnerable around you. He lets you take a look into his soul even though he’s afraid of what you’ll end up finding. He trusts you enough to take care of his heart, that he’s willing to open himself to the prospect of getting heartbroken just because you’re worth it.
7. He cooks for you
He doesn’t have to be Wolfgang Puck or Gordon Ramsey but he really cares about you, so he might as well be the next top chef. He’ll cook whatever recipes you ask him to just so he can satisfy your personal cravings.
8. He runs the errands that you don’t like to run
Your happiness is of utmost importance to him, and he knows you hate running those mundane tasks. Laundry? Dog-walking? Groceries? He’s there to lend a helping hand whenever you ask him to.
9. He knows how to plan and manage his schedule effectively
He’s a mature and organized individual who knows how to manage his time well. He always schedules his meetings and obligations responsibly because he wants to maximize all his extra time to be spent with you.
10. He compliments you when he knows you’re in need of one
Got a new haircut? Had your nails done? Using a new shade of lipstick? If he loves you enough, he’ll notice these new details about you and compliment you about them. He loves everything about you, even the little nitty-gritties.
11. He gives you gifts just because
It doesn’t have to be a special occasion. He’ll give you flowers just because it’s a Wednesday. He’ll treat you to a night out just because you were having a bad day. He’ll buy you a new pair of shoes because he loves how your face lights up when that happens.
12. Your pleasure in bed is also his priority
When it comes to sexual pleasures, it’s not just all about his own desires and he understands that. He wants you to be as pleased as he is when it comes to sex and he tries his best. He asks you what you like and he’ll always try to deliver for you because your pleasures are more important to him than his own.
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