A Love Letter To The Ladies Who Keep Falling For Men Who Don’t Know How To Love
We’ve all been there. Trust us. We’ve all had feelings for someone who just didn’t have the capacity to reciprocate those feelings. It can get tough, we know. We understand the sheer heartache of having a love unrequited.
We empathize with you on this front. We know how incredibly disheartening it can be to fall for someone who doesn’t even notice you. We have felt the pain of loving someone who just doesn’t know how to love us back. The important thing here is that you know that you’re not alone.
Many people have gone through what you’re experiencing now and they survived. A lot of these survivors even ended up finding a better love. Some of them got their happy ever after. Just keep your chin up and know that your time will come as well. You just have to not lose your faith in love, and keep your romantic fire burning. Wait for that perfect someone to come along and sweep you off your feet. Be patient and see that the ideal man will barge into your life and catch you whenever you fall. He will steal your heart and you won’t ever end up wanting it back. We know that it hurts now, but you’re just going to have to fight through that pain.
For starters, you should know that you are not the problem. You are not a person who just can’t be loved. Sometimes, things are just not meant to be and we have to be willing to accept that. Yes, you are human and you have your own flaws, but there are only so many things that we can control. If it’s just not in the cards for us, then we have to face that fact with strength and hope for better luck next time. Take this time to focus on yourself and build your own narrative.
Live your life the way that you want and fix the things that you can. Be aware of the things that are within your control and capitalize on it. Exercise more. Achieve your career goals. Develop new talents. Learn new hobbies. Focus on you and you’ll come out of this experience a stronger, better, and happier human being.
You don’t need a relationship for you to be happy. Your own happiness is a result of your own mindset and perception. Remember that you always have control of how you perceive things and so your happiness is only dependent on your general outlook on life. Don’t let any man dictate whether or not you get to be happy. Only you get to make that decision. Choose to be happy. Choose to remain hopeful. Choose to believe in a love that is right and beautiful.
That kind of love will come your way eventually. You just have to be patient while waiting for what’s in store for you. Remember that your story is never over unless you decide that it is. Everyone is still currently living an unwritten story and your best chapters are yet to come. Stay hopeful for a bright future in love and romance.
It’s okay to feel weak and vulnerable at this time. It’s part of what makes us human. If you feel an overwhelming state of sadness that comes over you. Accept it. Let it in and allow yourself to be human every once in a while. You’ll come out of it as a stronger and revitalized soul. Just remember that your weaknesses and vulnerabilities don’t define your story. You are more than just the sum of all your parts. Your self-worth is not defined by what kind of relationships you have with other man.
Don’t be bitter to those who happened to find love before you did. We all have different story-lines in life. You never know what other struggles they have to cope with as well. Maybe in totality, you have it better than they do. Find joy and happiness for people who are in love. Love is the most beautiful social experience in the world. Love is what unites us as a civilization. Love is what keeps our humanity intact and it’s what helps us get out of bed every morning. Love should serve as our motivation and it should always be celebrated.
Don’t get discouraged. Your time for love will come. Just keep that big smile plastered on your face so that when love comes knocking around, you’ll end up welcoming it with all the happiness in the world. And when love does come to find you, you should know that it isn’t always going to be pure bliss. You’re going to have ups and downs. You will experience lots of low points but that shouldn’t be a problem for you.
The wait for love made you a strong and patient person. Nothing can get in your way. And lastly (and most importantly), love yourself before anyone else can love you.
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