If he matches the description, you should stop trying.
It can be devastating to be in the early stages of a relationship and then discover that things aren’t going as well as you’d like them to be. This is supposed to be the happy and innocent stage of your relationship, and yet, you find yourself in deep emotional turmoil.
You start to notice that your man is growing more distant and colder over time. You start to think that he may not be as into you as you initially imagined. You think to yourself that perhaps it just takes him more time to open up to other people. Maybe you’re the one who is expecting too many things at a pace that’s too fast for him to keep up with.
However, you should also be open to the possibility that maybe he’s not just that into you. Perhaps even early on in the relationship, he doesn’t see a future with you in it. If that’s the case, then you definitely shouldn’t prolong the agony of forcing a relationship that just doesn’t mesh well. Save yourself the heartbreak of having to move on from a man you’ve become completely invested in. Seek out the signs early on and break things off as early as possible.
1. He talks about other girls constantly.
It’s a blatant act of disrespect whenever he starts talking about other girls in your presence. Or perhaps he’s trying to send you subliminal messages that he’s interested in a lot of other girls who aren’t you. Maybe you should take the hint.
2. He doesn’t take time out of his schedule for you.
If a man were truly interested in you, he would move mountains and oceans just to be able to spend time with you. If you find yourself being someone who is always on the losing end in the relationship, then maybe he really isn’t as invested in your union as you are.
3. He doesn’t ask you about your life.
If a man truly liked you, he wouldn’t get tired of hearing about your thoughts and opinions. A man is always deeply interested in the women that they think they have potential to fall in love with. If he doesn’t ask you questions about your day or life in general, then he’s not interested.
4. He is hesitant when it comes to meeting your family.
He avoids your family like the plague. He knows the emotional weight that comes along with meeting the family of another person and he is not having any of it. If he keeps making up excuses to not meet your family, then he isn’t as comfortable with you as you think he is.
5. He makes you the butt of his jokes.
A man should always respect his women, especially when it’s a woman he loves. If he always makes you the butt of his jokes, then maybe he really doesn’t see you as someone he could potentially love. It’s important for a man to have a sense of humor, but not at the expense of your character.
6. He doesn’t like to engage in deep conversations with you.
He avoids opening up and getting personal with because it makes him feel uncomfortable. He doesn’t trust you enough to let his guard down and be completely open with you. You can tell that he’s not interested in you if he always makes an effort to just keep things light and innocent.
7. He is uncomfortable with hanging out when it’s just the two of you.
It’s always a group setting whenever you hang out. He doesn’t like to be left alone with you because it makes him feel awkward. Whenever you request a night out on the town, he will always end up inviting a few more of your mutual friends.
8. He doesn’t know how to react whenever you get emotional.
He has no empathy for you at all to the point where it’s very awkward whenever you get emotional around him. He doesn’t want to make you feel like you can rely on him whenever you get sad, and so he tries to maintain some distance whenever you start getting overly emotional.
9. He changes the topic whenever you bring up the future.
The truth is that he really doesn’t see a future with you and that’s why he doesn’t like discussing it. He’s not open to conversations about the future implications of your relationship because he doesn’t give much thought to it.
10. He’s not ready to commit to you.
He’s still opening himself up to dating other women because he’s not comfortable with committing himself to you. He doesn’t want to tie himself down to you because he knows that he would just be lying to himself if he tried to force things with you.
11. He has a reputation for being a player.
If he’s known in the community of being a player who can’t commit to a single woman, then what makes you think he’s going to treat you any differently? Sometimes a good reality check is what you need in order for you to stop placing yourself in a position of heartbreak and disappointment.
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