Ladies, stay far away from these types!
We’ve all encountered different types of stories about love and relationships throughout the course of our lives. We have seen the stories of couples who just make love and romance seem so effortless and natural. And on the other end of the spectrum, we’ve seen the couples who make us question whether relationships are still worth the stress.
We’ve all heard it all, and somehow, it’s not too farfetched to think that we’ve picked up some patterns along the way. We’ve seen some consistent characteristics in the kinds of relationships that we aspire to have the same way we’ve seen commonalities between the kinds of relationships we want to avoid at all costs.
While there is no general formula for finding success in love, romance, and relationships, there are some tips that could greatly improve your chances. You must remember that relationships are all about the dynamics between to personalities. You have to be able to find someone with a personality that meshes well with yours. You have to be able to establish an emotional connection with a person who is actually ready to be in a relationship and commit himself to you.
However, the sad fact of the matter is that no matter how hard you try to make a relationship work, sometimes the odds are just not in your favor. A lot of times, distress in a relationship greatly depends on your choice of man. Even if you love him with all your heart, if he possesses personality traits that aren’t conducive for making a relationship work, then you aren’t going to find success in your relationship at all.
Yes, it can be tempting to get in a relationship with the “flawed” man that you can eventually fix to become a better person. You want to treat this guy like a science project that you can eventually work on until he becomes perfect enough for you. You really need to wrap your head around the fact that there are just some types of men who aren’t worth getting into relationships with.
These are the kinds of men who will force you to reexamine all your prior perceptions of love and romance. These are the men who might turn you off to the idea of love completely. Be sure to steer clear from these men if you don’t want to end up getting heartbroken and disappointed.
1. The man with mommy issues.
One of the types of men that you should be avoiding at all costs for the sake of your relationship is the guy who still has mommy issues. This is the man who seemly can’t make a move in life without consulting mommy first. This is the guy who is virtually incapable of thinking for himself because he was bred to believe that only mother knows best. It’s like you’re in a relationship with a man’s mother than with an actual man. Always be wary of these kinds of guys because they can seem genuine and cute when you first meet, but you’ll only end up feeling very frustrated in the long run.
2. The guy who is practically allergic to commitment.
You need a man who is going to commit to you. Relationships are never easy, and it takes a whole lot of shared time and commitment between two people to make things work. If a man just absolutely refuses to establish any kind of commitment with you, then you should do yourself a favor and just walk away. Don’t play a fool by waiting around for the guy who isn’t willing to wait around for you. Find a man who is willing to commit himself entirely to you and to the relationship.
3. The man who is always looking to play the field.
Don’t date the player. You have to understand that some men are just going to be polygamous by nature and that no woman on the face of this earth is ever going to able to change them. If they are going to end up changing their player ways, the change is always going to come from within themselves. So you have a choice here: it’s either you wait around for a change that’s never going to happen, or you go off and find yourself a man who is willing to commit himself to you and only you.
4. The self-absorbed narcissist.
A narcissist is never going to do well in any form of relationship. This is the kind of guy who only has himself on his mind. There is no space in his heart for other people. You should never subject yourself to a kind of relationship wherein you always find yourself coming in second place to a man’s ego. You have to be in a relationship with a man who is mature enough to prioritize you every so often. Find a man who isn’t afraid to place your needs above his own. Otherwise, you will be left with nothing but scraps.
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