“How do I know if I’m in the right relationship or not?”. “What do you think a “right relationship” should provide for the people in it?”
Although the answer here is obviously subjective, in all relationships, romantic and platonic alike, there are some clear signs that things are going well. So today, let’s take a look at some signs you’re in the “right relationship,” and corresponding tips that could potentially help you make a “wrong relationship” right:
1. Honesty, vulnerability, and presence are held sacred.
Although it may sound risky, the strongest type of love is the love that makes you the most vulnerable. It’s about daring to reveal yourself honestly, and daring to be open and fully disclosed over the long-term. It’s about sticking by each other’s side through thick and thin, and truly being there in the flesh and spirit when you’re needed most.
So open yourself up. BE with the person you love. Allow yourself to experience them authentically. Tear down any emotional brick walls you have built around yourself and feel every exquisite emotion, both good and bad. This is real life. This is how you welcome a sincere connection with another human being.
2. They never give up on you
The most beautiful thing about the right person is they will never give up on you in any condition in any circumstances; they will love you and stand by your side. They will never leave you alone in your hard times. They will sacrifice their things to stand by your side. If you have the one who have these qualities then respect him, love him and never let him go.
3. They don’t lie
They don’t hide anything from their partner; they tell the truth and trust their partner. They don’t lie or cheat. They care for you and know that their lies can destroy their relationship. If you have true in your feelings then you wouldn’t think to cheat. Always Tell the truth in any circumstances. I must mention here that you should give enough space to your partner, especially girls should give space to their partner if in case they find them lying then give them chance to explain and if you think that the reason was genuine behind that lie then give them confidence to share the truth with you.
4. Everyone is on the same page.
If a woman starts out all casual with a man and she doesn’t tell him that she wants a committed relationship, it will likely never become a committed relationship. If you give someone the impression that casual, or whatever, is okay with you, that’s what will be assumed going forward. The bottom line is that you have to be straight from the start, or at least as soon as you know what you want. Don’t beat around the bush. If someone gets scared and runs away because you were honest and set boundaries, that person wasn’t right for you anyway.
5. Real Men can not be two faced
This world is full of two faced people, which make it difficult to believe that which one is their real face. If your partner is honest with you, he will not hide anything from you; he will share his good and bad experiences with you and will ask you for advice. He will not love you to show you or the others that he loves you instead he will prove it with his little deeds of kindness, care and love. So be careful while choosing a partner. Girlfriends must be thinking from where they can found such “Nice Guys , dear girls such guys do exists but you have to keep your eyes open to see this kind of qualities. You can not see their goodness on their face so don’t be a judgmental, give them a chance then you will be able to find some one spical.
If you don’t find him honest, trustworthy and loving let him go. It would be hard to say good bye but it would save your life.
6. No games are being played.
Far too often, we make our relationships harder than they have to be. The difficulties started when… conversations became texting, feelings became subliminal, sex became a game, the word “love” fell out of context, trust faded as honesty waned, insecurities became a way of living, jealously became a habit, being hurt started to feel natural, and running away from it all became our solution. Stop running! Face these issues, fix the problems, communicate, appreciate, forgive and LOVE the people in your life who deserve it.
And of course, if you feel like someone is playing games with you, speak up.
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