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Typically, when we make a mistake in life we assess the problem, correct it, and move forward. That’s the idea, at least. That’s why it baffles me to see people go through repeated failed relationships, myself included. I mean, aren’t we supposed to learn from whatever it was that caused the relationship to fail to make the next relationship better? Sure, that sounds simple on paper. In sitting down and really evaluating why relationships fail, I’ve come up with an interesting theory. WHERE...

by School Of Life on 18 December 2016

Why do we cheat? Only about 3% of mammals on Earth are monogamous, and humans are among them. The evolutionary and economic benefits of monogamy are hard-wired into us so strongly that monogamy is a sociocultural norm as well…and its opposite, scientifically known as “extrapair bonding” and colloquially known as cheating, is highly frowned upon. More Americans condemn cheating than suicide, human cloning or even polygamy, about 91% according to a 2013 Gallup poll. So is there a science behind...

by School Of Life on 18 December 2016

I saw a post the other day in my Facebook news feed that normally wouldn’t have caught my eye, but for some reason, it sent my mind reeling. The post basically said, “If you could write your 18-year-old self a note, what would it say?” At first, I thought, “okay, how long can this note be? Handwritten or typed? Where do I find old lottery numbers?” The more I thought about it, the more I figured out that there isn’t much I would tell myself that I didn’t already know. I’ve lived...

by School Of Life on 18 December 2016

Many women think that men owe them something. This is not a wise approach. It’s this approach to relationships that can be ruinous for maintaining trust and mutual respect. But a lot of women only realize this when it’s too late. We want to make sure as many people as possible gain important insights without having to make mistakes, and this is why we put together this article. 1. A wise woman is self-reliant and doesn’t demand that others look after her. We’re not talking...

by School Of Life on 16 December 2016

Are you the girl for him? If you want to win the right man’s heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from just feeling casual about dating you, to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I’m going to take you inside a man’s mind you so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection. And I’m talking about a real man — one who is mature and grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level. They’re on a great path and open to growing on...

by School Of Life on 16 December 2016

If your flirting skills are lacking, it’s time to step it up. This is, of course, if you’re looking to procure a mate. And you are, aren’t you? Isn’t everyone? Well, the thing about flirting in that whole finding a boyfriend or girlfriend department is that it works. Studies show that not only does flirting help in the dating department, but flirting and being able to do it well are far more effective than your excessive good looks. After conducting research regarding flirting in places...

by School Of Life on 15 December 2016

As a relationship coach, I’m on the front lines every day hearing all the latest and most common ways that otherwise good people mess up their intimate relationships. While there are a million stories in the big city, the truth is that breakups usually tend to fall into a few primary categories. Now before you accuse me of blaming women for all breakups, just know that I have a list of the 10 Biggest Mistakes Men Make In Relationships as well. And believe me, they are as different as the genders...

by School Of Life on 15 December 2016

These are a dead giveaway. It’s cliche for a reason … men aren’t always best at showing how they feel, even when they’re crazy about you. But here are 10 ways to tell for sure: 1. He Opens Up. Emotional intimacy isn’t easy for anyone so if he’s baring his soul to you, it’s not because he likes hearing himself talk … alright, not just because he likes hearing himself talk. 2. He Does The Dirty Work. Taking out the garbage and scrubbing the bathroom floor may not seem romantic, but...

by School Of Life on 15 December 2016

As much as we all want to think that guys can handle their own around girls, the truth is that women intimidate a lot of men. Think about how many tropes you’ve heard involving men who get shy, stutter, and stammer around beautiful, intelligent and ambitious women — it happens a lot more than you think. Here are some signs that you’re a bit too badass for many men to handle: 1. Guys Tend To Look At You, But Won’t Approach You. This is a good sign that you’re either dressed strangely,...

by School Of Life on 14 December 2016

“You get so frustrated sometimes that you think you’d be better off alone. That love is not worth the heartache and pain. My Dear Beautiful Strong Woman… it’s not love that causes the heartache and pain. It’s the wrong man you choose to give into.” ~ Mr. Amari Soul As women, we can fall hard for a man. It might be their looks that draw us in, the story they tell us about themselves to make us stay, the way they gaze at us with their dark brooding eyes. Or perhaps we see some unexplainable...

by School Of Life on 14 December 2016