We live in a world where society has set an impossible standard for everything. Before we even get into a relationship, we already are scared of a thousand things because we’ve seen something in some movie, we already have our bar set too high because of something someone told us or because of what society tries to portray as “perfect”. What’s important in life is to grow at your own pace, to learn at your own speed and to expect at a humane level. Here are nine relationship...

by School Of Life on 19 June 2017

Never underestimate the damaging powers of seemingly “small” silly habits that happen from day to day. Things that seem minor or even “funny” at the time may slowly be leaving a mark on your partner without you even knowing about it. Here are ten of the most common silly habits that are damaging relationship everyday, see if you mistakenly do any of these. Let’s begin. 1. Making it all about “you” I know I said that you need to love yourself before you...

by School Of Life on 19 June 2017

Over a year ago, I was in a relationship that was going nowhere, a relationship where everyday got sadder than the last, it was a horrible feeling and I was just too scared of letting go because the process of moving on is just too hard for anyone to go through. But, eventually, it had to be done. I decided that the sorrow I’m going to go through for a few months is better than a lifetime of trauma and suffocation, so I decided to let go and move on with my life and make myself breathe...

by School Of Life on 19 June 2017

Even the strongest relationships can be brought down within seconds if some things keep happening again and again. The strongest of lovers have their limits and they can only support one another to a certain level before the “spark” goes away. Here are six things that can ruin a perfect relationship. 1. Avoiding talking things out I was once in a relationship where my SO and I never talked about any of our fights, instead, we just shelved them and pretended to move past them. Needless...

by School Of Life on 19 June 2017

You can have the happiest relationship, together. All relationships, even the strongest ones, have problems. Two people, no matter the amount of love they hold for each other, will eventually have conflicts because they are both different individuals with different states of mind and are trying to share one life together, conflicts are bound to happen, it’s a part of human nature and strong couples are strong couples because they know how to end conflicts fast and easily. Stress caused...

by School Of Life on 19 June 2017

Make sure you avoid these things, I’ve seen the strongest of people break apart because of these things. It takes very minute and menial things to slowly damage a relationship over time, things that aren’t noticeable in the beginning and subtly affect even the strongest of relationships. Make sure you avoid these things, I’ve seen the strongest of people break apart because of these things. Let’s begin. 1. Don’t try to read their mind When couples start trying to...

by School Of Life on 19 June 2017

You’ve definitely found him! This one is for the ladies. We all want to find the perfect soul mate, I have certainly found my Ms. Right and after a lot of heartbreaks too, it’s not easy finding someone who’s just made for you. A lot of you will say that there is no such thing as a perfect partner, but the right person does exist for you. Here are twelve signs that tell you you’ve found your Mr. Right, let’s begin. 1. You will marry him time and again When someone...

by School Of Life on 18 June 2017

I’ve written a lot about how healthy couples manage to stay healthy even after months and years of being together, it’s not easy and it takes a lot of effort from both sides. Healthy and happy couples also have their downs and their problems, but they still manage to come out of those problems stronger than ever, that’s what makes them “healthy” in the end and they manage to stay that way for days to come. Here are eight of the most common things that only healthy...

by School Of Life on 18 June 2017

This one is for the gentlemen, guys who truly care for the women they’re with and their looks don’t really mean much to them. It’s a common misconception about men that they care more about the looks, but let’s be honest, who doesn’t care about the looks at first? We all do. But what matters is that we don’t stay too attached to the looks and give other things more importance, things that should matter more and do matter more. Here are ten things men like in...

by School Of Life on 18 June 2017

Everything has its good side and its bad side. To focus on just one is plain exaggeration. Therefore, when we talk about the positive effects of something in life, we should not neglect its negative sides for they, too, have a major impact on our lives. Now, let us take something pretty common, widely discussed and also greatly adapted by majority of the people today. So is it just restricted to candle-lit dinners and sweet gifts on Valentine’s Day and words of affection shared between two people...

by School Of Life on 18 June 2017