1.You can be in a relationship for months and only be talking. In the world of modern relationships, you can date someone for months, even spend more time together than a married couple, but when it comes down to someone asking about the relationship, you’re only ‘talking’ with the person, not ‘with’ the person. This not only opens the space for major confusion, but also opens the floor for cheating, with one person on one page about the relationship, and another person on a completely...

by bote brian on 26 March 2019

1.As You Get Older, You Should Lower Your Relationship Expectations Just because you’re growing in age doesn’t mean you have to lower your relationship expectations. So many singles get lost in the “I’ll take what I can get at my age” mentality that they think they’re not worthy of a partner who meets their standards. Contrary to the belief that you have to compromise your desires with age, relationship partners get better with age. Why? Because they’re generally more established,...

by bote brian on 16 March 2019

1.Share Household Tasks When you and your spouse are unhappy about the division of household chores or tasks, the stress level in your marriage can increase dramatically. If one spouse is taking over more tasks than the other, consider taking on a non-routine task this week or simply helping them with what they’re doing. If you see your wife or husband sweeping consider pulling out the vacuum or if you see your wife beginning to wash the dishes, consider wiping them down and putting them in...

by bote brian on 6 March 2019

1.God’s Love Runs Deep God loves you tremendously. No action you make and no sin that you commit can make Him love you any less. The Bible tells us, “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know Him” (1 John 3:1). When we are going through tough times, it’s important that you remember that God loves you – no matter how many mistakes you make or how many...

by bote brian on 1 March 2019

A friend of mine made me write this article, she’s in a tough spot because she is single for the past six months and she started feeling bad for herself. She thought that just because she’s single, she couldn’t be happy anymore, so she tried rushing into a few relationships which ended badly. This article is for everyone who rush into relationships, relationships happen naturally, they can’t be rushed or forced. If any of these red flags strike a nerve with you, be single until you can...

by School Of Life on 11 May 2018

From the day we are born, we are taught things. We are taught to speak, to write, to spell and everything in between. As we progress in life, we are taught social ethics, we get to know the difficulties life brings our way, we are taught to be strong and face our problems. What we miss out are the very basics of human nature , we are never properly taught ways to avoid toxic and harmful relationships, we just get warned without the means of getting out of them or turning them into something they’re...

by School Of Life on 11 May 2018

Nothing good in life comes easy. Happy and healthy relationships are no different, they require a lot of constant work from both sides. This article is going to focus on 25 of the most common things people in happy and healthy relationships DON’T do. 1. They Don’t Go Into Replacement Relationships Okay, so the two of you may be going through a rough patch. It does not mean that you can go flirt with other people just to see how it feels. Strong relationships are the ones where two people...

by School Of Life on 10 May 2018

Good relationships are hard to come by, they are even harder to maintain. It’s not rocket science, but it needs two very willing people to keep a relationship strong and glowing just like it did the first day. We are only human and we tend to have disagreements every now and then, it then depends on the people in the relationship to keep it as strong as possible. If you think your relationship isn’t what it used to be, these six reasons may enlighten you on what you need to take care of to...

by School Of Life on 10 May 2018

Relationships are hard to maintain, some work out till the end and some fail no matter how two people work on them. This one is for those of you who think you’re living a lie, those of you who think you’re “dragging the relationship” or are “being dragged with someone”. This is about the harsh realities that all of us have to face at least once in our lives, the harsh realities of the fact that we don’t always get what we want no matter how badly we may want it. If your relationships...

by School Of Life on 9 May 2018

A large proportion of the population seem to think that it is unfortunate to be single. That they can only be “complete” once they have met that special someone with whom they would find eternal happiness. Nothing could be further from the truth. Oh, this article is most certainly not to condemn all of those happy couples. Know that I am infinitely happy for all those of you have found someone just right who loves you for you. But what I mean to say here is that the idea that you...

by School Of Life on 9 May 2018