Respect means everything in relationships. Everyone deserves to be respected. It is important in any kind of relationship. You can’t possibly love someone without respecting them and no one would want to be in a relationship where they aren’t valued. Just like everything else, how he acts around you and how he treats you will definitely tell you whether he has any regard for you or not. It’s not that hard to reach a verdict on this one. Either he respects you, or he doesn’t. And if he...

by School Of Life on 15 June 2017

Have you ever been in a relationship with a sociopath? You can’t choose who you fall for, but you can choose who you stay with. If you’re lucky enough, even if you’re not with the right person, you may be with someone who won’t do you harm. But if you’re not so lucky, you might find yourself stuck in a relationship with a sociopath. They might not go as far as trying to kill you, but they would use you for their benefits.  They’re parasites, feeding off you, your money, your links,...

by School Of Life on 14 June 2017

What if someone could give you a checklist of the things you are not supposed to do in a relationship? What if someone could just give you the key to all your problems? Here is a list of things that often cause problems in a relationship. Avoid those huge fights by following these simple things. 1. DON’T TAKE YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED Never ever take your partner for granted. When you do that, it is extremely obvious to your partner. Nothing will last forever if you keep assuming that without...

by School Of Life on 14 June 2017

Getting out of a relationship often leaves us bruised, emotionally. Doesn’t matter if it was a mutual or one-sided decision, it is hard and leaves back a thousand memories. The biggest mistake people getting out of a relationship make, is jumping in another relation. This ends up making a huge mess of your past, present and future. Don’t let your past interfere with your present, this is how you do it 1. FINALLY, LET GO OF ALL THE GIFTS AND CARDS ETC Things that had built up your relationship,...

by School Of Life on 14 June 2017

There are levels of things we tolerate in a relationship 1. Can-bear-with-this-all-my-life 2. This-needs-to-change 3. This-I can-only-let- go-one-time and the last one 4. HELL-NO! We often confuse all of them which ends up in either making your partner suffer but mostly making yourself suffer! So here are a few lines you need to draw or may I say, few things you need to say HELL-NO to! 1. CHEATING A one time thing could be a mistake in some cases, to be honest, I don’t think cheating can ever...

by School Of Life on 13 June 2017

I have already discussed a number of convincing reasons to be in a relationship with someone. But there could be as many reasons for breaking up with a person who doesn’t deserve you. If your life partner is not loving, not respectful towards you, humiliates and degrades you and doesn’t treat you well, then there is no point in sticking to him / her. You should just break off with a person who is not worthy of you and should move on with your life. There are many partners who are living in...

by School Of Life on 13 June 2017

Most people in relationships spend all their time and energy on their partner, their family and their relationship. In the end, there’s very little left for themselves. Don’t get me wrong, I believe it is essential that you do think of your partner first and put your relationship as your highest priority but I also believe in the importance of self worth. Often in relationships, we let go of ourselves completely. We adapt and change so much that we forget our true identity and when that...

by School Of Life on 12 June 2017

Every woman can be a mother, but there are a few who are naturally amazing at being moms! Being a mother means huge compromises, dedication and a LOT of patience. I have seen many who struggle with even their third child and quite a few who are pros, even though it is their first child. As per my observation, which is my favourite thing to do, such women have common attributes that come across very evidently in their day-to-day things, their nature and their behaviour. Ultimately, you would...

by School Of Life on 12 June 2017

It’s good to imagine someone who will fall for us and for whom we will fall head over heels. It is exciting to further imagine that you both will be completely happy without having an argument ever in your relationship. It becomes impossibly fascinating that we will eventually marry them and live happily ever after. Relationships don’t happen like that. We aren’t coming out of a best-selling novel where people act like pros at having a relationship. Getting in a relationship is like learning...

by School Of Life on 9 June 2017

The Ex Topic will always be a sensitive in every relationship no matter how cool or super-cool your current partner is. We get too comfortable with our partners in discussing what is going on in our minds, which is great! But it might get a little overboard when we stop thinking that our partner might want to be all that insensitive towards this topic but cannot be. They surely try not to pay too much attention to the details of things when you are talking about them because that will go on...

by School Of Life on 8 June 2017